So Ciara was in the mix of some unwarranted comments from a man who has a theory that she is only with Russell Wilson because of his money. The man went on to say that deep down Ciara loves “cool guys” like Future and only settled for Russell. To counter these statements, Ciara posted a photo describing what a cool man is to her. One of the descriptions was that a cool man is “a man that carries himself as though you are in his presence even if you’re not.” I think that’s the statement that really shows that Future is not a cool man because he is not a responsible man. Future disrespected both Ciara and their son by cheating on her. As far as we know, all Russell has done is show Ciara and her son love and respect. So in my opinion, both Ciara and Russell won this argument. I hope they may continue to live happily ever after.
When I read the list of descriptions that make a man “cool”. It also reminded me of the want list that a lot of us have when we’re looking for a partner to spend our lives with. I think Ciara’s list is spot on. I am not sure if this is the list she used when looking for a partner after she broke up with future but it’s pretty clear that Russell has all those qualities. This week I was watching a Kenyan blogger, Ess (Sharon Mundia), who recently got a tv show called “living with ess” on NTV. One of her guests this week was a man who has been married for 7 years and was giving some great dating advice. One of the tips he mentioned is to have a list of what you’re looking for in a partner. He also went on to say that when we write something on a wish list, the more we see it wherever we go. He made this analogy with a phone where you’re interested in a particular phone and everywhere you go, you now start to notice advertisements for that phone. This may have something to do with the “law of attraction” which I can’t speak much about since I haven’t read that book. However, I am sure everyone would like a little help from the universe in getting what they want. 🙂 ❤
5 thoughts on “What defines a “Cool guy” ft Ciara”
Some people defines COOL as “stylish, gangster behavior”. To be clear, Russell is stylish, but he do not have gangster behavior like Future. Some girls like guys who are gangster. Some AA on twitter do talk about how they like hood ni**ers. Russell isn’t hood like Future. I believe Ciara made the right choice. Russell is better than Future.
This is true. It’s all about preference in the end and making the best logical decision. 9/10 the not so cool guy is the best logical option.
Btw what does it mean when a Nigerian mam says “I want to marry you for my brother?”
I really don’t know exactly.
What I do know is the man is flirting with you. Or he is checking to know if you’re single. Or just joking.
Oh ok so he is pretending Like he is asking for his brother. Now it makes sense. Thanks